World Autism Day

Being that this it is officially World Autism Day, now seems like the appropriate time to talk about the fact that my kid is on the autistic spectrum, for those of you who didn't know. I try to keep things sort of positive on this blog, and haven't really said much about it here. I've been trying to process it for a long time, and haven't always known how to deal with it. But it has been pretty clear from a young age, whether I wanted to acknowledge it or not (mostly not). Anyway, we are just days away from receiving tangible paperwork stating what we have known for years...that Wyatt has Asperger's Syndrome along with Sensory Processing Disorder. This is what I already know, but will make it easier for him to access much needed services like occupational therapy, speech therapy, and possibly social skills classes. I have so much more to say about all this, as well as my thoughts and feelings on it, but today is kind of a busy day getting ready for a rescheduled family birthday party (we were all sick on the original day).

For a truly inspirational story about autism, check out the movie "Temple Grandin". She is remarkable and revolutionized the cattle industry, even though her mother was told she should be institutionalized at a young age.

Also, here is a YouTube video of a high school graduation speech given by a young man named Eric who happens to have autism. I just love this.



For information about Asperger's specifically, check out John Elder Robison's blog. John is an "Aspergian" as he refers to those with Asperger's, and has become an advocate for those on the spectrum. He has authored several books including "Look Me in the Eye" about his life growing up as an "Aspie", and his latest book, "Be Different", a sort of survival guide for those on the spectrum and their parents and teachers, as well as a celebration of the unique differences and skill sets that are present.

Autism has many faces, and the spectrum is so broad. A lot of people see Wyatt in public and probably assume he just needs to be spanked, but he is dealing with the world in the best way he knows how (one in which he sees everything fundamentally DIFFERENTLY than everyone else.) It would be hard to automatically follow the same rules if your world looked different, no? At times he drives me bonkers with his incessant questioning, not listening, hyperactivity, upsets over very minor things, general loudness, and still not sleeping through the night, but I have seen great improvements in him over time, and I am so proud of him. Not many kids are reading before they are four years old, and I know he loves loves LOVES us fiercely. He is a very intelligent and sweet kid with SO much to offer the world, and I feel so blessed to be his mom. He allows me to see the world in a different way, and I just know he is capable of greatness.

Love you, kiddo.